I'm just saying not to rock the boat for now so she can see what m to you can be like in a new m, so she can want it to work.
Well, as I see it takes two to make it work. Not just me not rocking the boat. Many of the adjustments that I have made, that DB has recommended (and I agree with), are not sustainable for an indefinite amount of time.
In order for her to see how wonderful our M could be, I'm going to have to have some needs met. Oh, for the time being, I can play along but the necessary changes needed are not limited to me. I sometimes get the feeling you elude to this and I'm trying to understand. Of course, I am the only person I have control to change.
Communication is the key here. Unless I'm missing something?
Even if I were to decide to not "stick it out", it would require some communication from the W.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
