But this is such a short time period of relative stability, why not build on that and THEN worry about the rest?
I'm not saying to sweep it under the rug AT ALL.
I'm just saying not to rock the boat for now so she can see what m to you can be like in a new m, so she can want it to work.
Your expectations are - to me - too high too soon.
What are my expectations? An explanation? Not sweeping it under the rug?
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AND OR because she doesn't want to be transparent or do the work, yet. And she may never want to, but that's for a later time (unless you become the WAS, which is not uncommon.)
This is exactly what I expect is going on.
What is a reasonable amount of time?
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
