I think we all understand your position. I really do. I just don't agree with it.
I have never seen a married man/father leave his own home and children, continue to pay for it AND with OM living in it with his kids still there.
And if you check, you 'll see that I've been around here awhile.
The baby steps you think you have seen are that your w is more civil with you.
To me, that's not really a baby step towards you - That's her getting comfy with the situation.
Is there a part of you that thinks you deserved this? I'm asking.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016