stay steady on the course. Don't expect her to bring it up anytime soon
either b/c she does not feel safe with you (and doesn't want this thrown in her face every time there is a fight or to have it held over her head the rest of her life OR b/c she doesn't want to discuss it endlessly)
AND OR because she doesn't want to be transparent or do the work, yet. And she may never want to, but that's for a later time (unless you become the WAS, which is not uncommon.)
But this is such a short time period of relative stability, why not build on that and THEN worry about the rest?
I'm not saying to sweep it under the rug AT ALL.
I'm just saying not to rock the boat for now so she can see what m to you can be like in a new m, so she can want it to work.
Your expectations are - to me - too high too soon.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
