JM.....more than likely it is probably true that there is OM in the picture. My W said she wanted a D, moved out and has not filed yet. So for me it says either she has OM but he might be married so she can't be with him 100% or she just wants to live the single life and date around. I don't have 100% concrete proof but I would be foolish to think otherwise. Once I am presented with the 100% concrete proof them I will have to think about what my next steps are.
Either way you just have to take care of yourself and be the best Jmstl you can be. Self analyze yourself and determine where your faults are at and work on improving them for yourself. Get back into the gym, etc. make girls notice you. I was walking out today after my workout and was checking out a girl on the stairmaster. She looked up, saw me checking her out and immediately looked away. I thought to myself. GOTCHA! Confidence boosters like that will serve you well.
I personally have had a rough weekend with my emotions, not sure why. Just get back on the horse and ride like you have never ridden before.
Also I have spent hours on this site reading over some of the great advice the vets have given over the years. I would strongly encourage you to do the same. Some go back 10 to 11 years ago. I recently have been reading Starsky, Denver and Gucci Loafer to name a few. It just helps get your mind right, it is better than therapy!
