Wife says that she had enough, files for divorce

[SwHubby]

Also, the 180s I need to do for myself (and W of course) which partly comes into play here is:

- Be more assertive and sure of myself. When I got ill, I started to become really anxious and could not control it. I have always been partly anxious, but always kept it well under control and acted "as if" which really paid out for me until I crashed.
- Stop being a "know-it-all" and correct other ppl. I have a tendency to do it without really thinking about it, which I hate doing.
- Be more generous and less cheap/frugal. Have always been a bit frugal but when I crashed and became highly anxious, this part of me started to take over.
- Be more casual and social. I am an introvert but "learned to act as an extrovert" early. Only the ppl really close to me would describe me as an introvert. Aquintances would say I am quite extrovert. But the introvert personality traits took over more when I crashed.
- Excercise body and mind daily.
- Make sure that family always comes first. When I got ill, I had a hard time focus on anything outside of myself. Right now this is D, but would love for W to want to be included as well (as if that would happen...).


I am trying to be critical of myself in order to really see negative personality traits for what they really are. But also trying to be forgiving, which is hard...