This morning was the real test. We cleaned out storage. I showed very little emotion, did not bring up the R at all. Only a few things solicited a reaction at all. Want your sex books and vibrator? No okay.
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Only thing that got me was she tried to throw away every single picture of us, Including our wedding pictures. I looked at her and said "No, these are mine. I am keeping them for when the kids get older"
I've seen this IRL. It is exactly like purging the past. I couldn't believe it when my ex DIL gave all the wedding photos to my S.........plus all the wedding gifts that had their names and wedding date inscribed. They meant nothing to her.
It's so sad what it does to the family, b/c they haven't even had time to adjust to the idea of their family breaking up.
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My sister thinks she is trying to purge me so quickly and completely bc she knows she is doing the wrong thing in giving up. I don't even bother to try and get in her head anymore.
IMHO, it is b/c of the wayward mindset she has developed. Perhaps a part is due to her knowing she is wrong........but I would not say she's giving in. She is "replacing". In a matter of time, I think it will be revealed. Although she may try to conceal when her new found love began......I think he'll show up on the scene very soon.
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At the end, I said "I am going to festival of nations today, if you and kids want to go. If not, that's fine." She responded she promised D swimming. So I just see ya later got in the car and left.
She has made it clear that she no longer wants the life she shared with you. My advice is to stop inviting her to join in any activities with you.....or as a family.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
