Focus, there is just so much that the walkaways have in common. Sometimes it is so scary, how when I read another poster's situation on the forums, I can relate so well to what they are going through. Because the experiences are just so identical in so many ways. Is it just human nature, a unnatural and stressful society that is just not conducive to family life and marriage, or just a lot of f'd up people that marry other people on totally different wave lengths?
Marriages work when you get two people that are just plainly committed regardless of unhappy times. The problem is you cant identify who the truly committed are until they have been put to the chance. The 50% of people that stay married just got lucky in that they married someone like. I think there are a lot of people out there with addiction issues and they do some pretty bad damage as well. I knew My ex was an addictive personality type. Cigarettes, Food. I never thought it could be an indicator of what ended up happening though. In the future that's what I am going to be weary of.
