Also --

Thinking about going near completely dark.

I think my W loves talking on the phone, google photos, email about our son. It's her main joy in life. I think the reason she's rushing into legal is to get more time with him -- her plan is to do almost nothing until he starts school to maximise her time with him.

And everyone loves sharing what she loves! There is no-one else who understands the love for our son as I do, and no-one else to share these experiences with the same.

So I could go dark (dark as possible at least)... show her what she would lose. But could also seriously backfire! frown


Me: 36 W: 40
S: 4
Together 10 years, Married 8
BD and Seperation: 8 June 2017
Financial/Custody Filing by her: 25 Aug 2017