I think my W loves talking on the phone, google photos, email about our son. It's her main joy in life. I think the reason she's rushing into legal is to get more time with him -- her plan is to do almost nothing until he starts school to maximise her time with him.
And everyone loves sharing what she loves! There is no-one else who understands the love for our son as I do, and no-one else to share these experiences with the same.
So I could go dark (dark as possible at least)... show her what she would lose. But could also seriously backfire!
Me: 36 W: 40 S: 4 Together 10 years, Married 8 BD and Seperation: 8 June 2017 Financial/Custody Filing by her: 25 Aug 2017