Thought maybe it would be worth posting some of the positives:

We exchange pictures via google photos every week of what we did with our son. Sometimes we comment on them.

We often joke and laugh during our nightly phone calls.

We remember some good things about the past (rarely).

We describe each others good traits and hope our son gets them (rarely).

She'll give me the occasional gift/thing to help with our Son.

Most of the positive is focused on our son. She does not ask me about my day, how I am, etc etc.


Me: 36 W: 40
S: 4
Together 10 years, Married 8
BD and Seperation: 8 June 2017
Financial/Custody Filing by her: 25 Aug 2017