Wait for the information from my lawyer with what my W wants.
Working on a letter to try to get her to hold off -- yes it's a bit of pursuit, but the opposite, do thing, is to talk through lawyers. Will have to get my lawyer to review the letter.
Have also thought about approaching some of her friends that will be on 'her side' but I still believe would try to give her good advice. Also against DB...
The goal is not to bring her back at this point, just to get things quiet again. Depending on the legal proposal maybe I could just accept it and settle too to get quiet.
Me: 36 W: 40 S: 4 Together 10 years, Married 8 BD and Seperation: 8 June 2017 Financial/Custody Filing by her: 25 Aug 2017
