I don't think the DV would ever happen again. I'm also working with a therapist and working on de-escalation and defusing things. It's something I was very good at 10+ years ago when i used to work with street people with addiction/mental problems.
Me: 36 W: 40 S: 4 Together 10 years, Married 8 BD and Seperation: 8 June 2017 Financial/Custody Filing by her: 25 Aug 2017