I'm thinking about doing something similar on our anniversary on 12th September. Going back to the church where we renewed our vows and burying a small piece of paper with a poem on it. Saying goodbye to my H with a mock funeral I suppose...although no sausage rolls and better quality wine!
Me: 53 H:38 T:20 M:14 BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression S 1/16 PA 4/16 H filed 1/17