But this is important...... Don't do it for her, or so "she sees you in them". Do it for you, because otherwise she'll see right through it as the manipulative tactic that it is.
Good for you for starting to kickbox at another gym.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17