Sotto, It is good to see you again. Yeah it's crappy how the marriage went from something so promising to gone in months is wild. But looking I know in my heart after almost 3 years of waiting it's time to make a change. I tend to tell those that know my sitch, an affair is a mistake, leaving your spouse and starting a new life with someone else is a "life changing decision" you just don't put life in reverse once you find the road leads someplace you didn't expect. It took a long while to get right with myself, but now that I am, I feel like compassion and patience are my two strongest assets. Because when we finally end this relationship there will be no doubt the man I am in her eyes. And although it pains me a little to think about it I still care for her, and I hope one day she finds someone else who will show her what a real relationship is like again. With compassion and patience not lies, deceit, and false promises.
