Same sweet new wifey for a week now.
I have not pursued. I've kept some distance and done my own things. Kept my stories short, validated hers.
In fact, she told me some story today and when I started talking she started to turn away. I stopped her and told her. She said, oh, sorry. No defensiveness.

Personally, I am trying to live in the moment. The whole thing seems suspicious and I often wonder when it will end. I plan to avoid the next fight or confrontation. Easier said than done.

I would like to know what is really going on in her head and heart.

For now, I will maintain.

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.