Finding my way out of the dark - Part 3

[Treasur]

Holding

Just re-read your thread. First of all, I can't imagine how painful it must be to hear your little boy say something like that...but it made me wonder. You're angry (understandably) and you seem to shut down and be a bit passive-aggressive in your responses when you feel that way. Is that fair?

I can see a couple of times when your wife seems to want to communicate, to invite you to sit with her...is she still doing that? If she does it again, and if you still want your M to have a shot, would a 180 for you be to listen and validate and be a little more open to communication?

And God? (Ha, what do I know, if you look at my thread you'll see my MLC H ran away and sees me as not worth even a conversation!) I don't think God takes orders, but I think he can be like a good father or mother. If your son comes home upset about something at school, as a good father you listen to him, hug him and try to make him feel good and strong enough to go back to school and face stuff the next day. For me, at the worst of times, I ask God to hold me and do that.