Mark,

As long as she thinks she can get you back easily, she won't come back. This is why we all are concerned about your strategy. Women are REALLY good at testing men and it's a really small percentage of men who have developed a natural ability to notice these. As long as you stay attached (this is what I got from her not getting berated), you ARE going to fail these potentially appearing tests. When you are fine either way, you will pass these.

She needs to know that in order to get you back, she needs to kiss the ground you are walking on. Again, read TXHubby's thread. That's how you deal with a WW.


In my thirties, BDd 2017, divorced
2 young kids
new relationship