Regarding your new boss - PIB, I have been in a very uncomfortable work situation where the comments were specifically and explicitly sexual.
My H was involved in an A at the time (I didn't really knwo about that) and wanted out. I had just gotten out of the hospital for being depressed and suicidal. As a result of the harassment an dall the H issues, I ended up right back in. So I completely understand where you're coming from.
Not looking vulnerable and becoming strong are great goals in this situation. Here's my (((PIB))) because I know what it's like to be a woman who needs her job.
You're doing great. Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.
