DB works with the kids two. I have limited the mr fix when it comes to the kids also. The are really stepping up and helping with things and i see positive growth from them too.
Slow and stead may win this race afterall.
Although we keep the W informed about planned activities we leave it up to her if she att3nds or not. After missing out on two events with us and being suprised we went she has been quick to arrange so she can go. Always is thankful and we are actually getting smiles from her...
Hopefully gone are the days where she convinces herself that people dont want to do things with her this was her attitude pre BD