Thank you for the insight. No I don't blame anymore. I used to. But now I really try to see reason and be empathetic to his sitch that he is going thru. Patience is not my strong point. So sitting here and waiting for him to make the move is hard for me. So going out and GAL keeps me distracted and focused on myself instead of him. I will take what each of you said and apply it to my sitch. I just can't wrap my mind around why he is fence sitting. How hard can it be to either cut loose or try to put us back together. I guess since it's not my journey it's not for me to understand.
