Yep. Had a feeling he was using oldest as an emotional support. I was dead on. Her 23-year-old self will tell him it's okay to keep drinking/smoking as long as it's in moderation... exactly what he wants to hear. He was playing us against each other, telling us different versions of the truth. That's B.S.

Texted him before I sent it... You are stressing us out. I can't have that right now. We have created a treaty of boundaries.

Just hard, have this guy we all love... if only... but, I can't get caught up in the fantasy of support and help and all that. He's just too wackadoo.

"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson