Not sure what else to do

[Jmstl]

Here is a question. Does pursuing have to be emotional in nature? My wife is a dominant personality. She says she wants me to step up and lead, but then always does things herself.

I got this in a larger email earlier.

Does X have your correct card information for payments, and are the dates she has still ok with your schedule?

So either she is just being polite and concerned, or she doesn't trust me.

I already have this situation taken care of.

Also, last night, I got this.

The other thing I wanted to say was "Make sure to remember to pack an afternoon snack for D"

My response was simply "I do remember", to which she said "Ok, well I forgot, so I was just sharing"

I am trying my damnedest to detach. I can't tell if she is trying to eat cake or what.

What do you all think?