Not sure what else to do

[Jmstl]

She said she is going to be hurting for years. She said there is ABSOLUTELY no way she will ever change her mind. Do you REALLY think there is a chance at recon, or is that giving me false hope?

They all say that. Well, at least I hope they all say that cause leaving an inch of hope is an awful thing to do. But people still get back together. I'm not saying that you two will, but her feelings right now may not be the same a year or two from now.

Yes and the other thing is when we all get married no one thinks anything will ever change and we will get divorced.

So she changed her mind to get to this point what makes you think she will never change her mind again.

Most people regret getting divorced.
That is a fact!
How long it takes to get to that point is another question.

Thanks, Cadet. That is a small ray of hope in this situation. I am not counting or expecting it (you did say after all to lower my expectations), but I do hope that within a year she will change her mind.