Yes. I do agree with her. I blame myself for becoming such a codependent (low self esteem, people pleaser, dysfunctional communication). I became somewhat of a shell of myself; lost my voice. She is a very strong Type A. Once I realized this, after the separation, i attempted to adapt to my old self. However, she was at the point where her boundaries were already up, b/c I have hurt her in the past so much for not changing.
What if she just gets fed up with my silence, or asks me what I want; or gets mad that I am just not talking to her. This 180/LRT is confusing me at times.
