I can only offer you what I told you in my previous post about what to say when a D is requeted.
I do not think a D is the answer to our marital problems however if that is what you wand due to the love and respect I have for you I will se you free.
Then sit back and see what she does with it. IF you don't want a D and she does then make her do all the work to make it happen.
Like Sandi said ultimately you can't stop her if that is what is ultimately wants.
If it's any consequence my W told me she wanted a D but has still not filed. You can see my timeline below.
