I may have missed something but why does she need your blessing to proceed?
I do not know why she 'needs' my blessing. It might be because the last time we were together; i had started the 180 (becoming more bubbly and confident) and we went through the finances to change all the cable/utilities/rent in my name because she moved out. So maybe she took my sign of 'up-beat-ness' as that I am doing OK and wanted the D.
After texting yesterday "I see why you would think that; I am just thinking everything through" She responded with "OK I understand".
I am so confused on how to proceed. I want to tell her I want to work on our marriage, but is this the time? Do I still have to wait for her to say that first?
