My husband filed for divorce

[Treasur]

You do need to talk to a L. It doesn't commit you to action but you need information. You don't have to do everything right now, or decide, or figure it all out, but you need info.

I'm sorry. I know this is grim but right now, for whatever reason, this is not your H and you can't trust him to treat your needs with as much respect as his own.

You can't control what he thinks, feels or does but you need to look after yourself and your son. I'm sorry that this is where you are and we all know how painful it is. But you must put your needs first.