We lived together for about 3 years before getting engaged for 18months.
No it would not be a deal breaker for the PA. She has never truely apologized for the EA/possiblePA.
She moved back in because we had kinda agreed for. 3 month time away. Yes: she seemed more depressed about everything. She rented an apartment for the 3 month separation.
When she came back we wanted a house so bad. So we went house hunting bc it was a fun Saturday activity. We have been renting for like 5 years. We found a house we both loved. She purchased it with her own money. So she lives there now. I am not financial responsibile for it. Plus; she would never go after money. We have both expressed this and comterary to most beliefs. I do believe she would never ruin me or anything like that.
Ok so I said my piece...validated and told her I would support her decision. This is what I got back...
"haven't heard from you so I assumed that meant you were ok to move forward "
I'm don't want to resort to telling her I want us back together (and become my old self). r. How do I proceeed.
Ok, so I responded to her with a...
"I can see why you would think/say that; I am just thinking everything through".
Last edited by Cadet; 08/31/1701:45 AM. Reason: Combine posts
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1
