No need to be envious! What I've learned is it is 100% possible to turn your life around once you truly decide what you want. You are in a tough spot where you eventually will need to start making some moves. But I guess, if you take action and then realize it's not the right path you can decide if your next move will be exiting the relationship or moving towards a relationship. I guess I've gotten a bit jaded as I've learned that not all major decisions have to be final. However, I believe marriage should be an all-in "no backsies" move.

If you told me 2 years ago, my life would not only be better, but more fulfilling than while in the m, I would have thought you were just trying to console me. But it is true. I can't even believe the doors that have opened and experinces I've had. My life has been elevated as a result of going through such hardship. I will never take this experience for granted at all.

Life is good. I'm responsible for making it good.


Me- 30's H- 40's
T-10 M-5
I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15
D filed by H: September 16