Hi guys, It seems like marriage has been hell to her. I don't know why but by the way she acts, I can tell that's the way she feels. I had an affair, once! We moved on, I ended the affair. Recently she has brought it back. Whenever we had a fight, she mentions it, like I am an a**hole who sabotaged the marriage. I found out she had an affair too. I haven't talked to her about this. What should I do?