Oh God, dusty, I'm sorry to hear about S17. Has he been to an IC?
I too struggle with blaming my W. And I cringe when I hear people say the kids will be fine. This is something my kids will probably struggle with the rest of their lives, and will give them their own neuroses and R issues.
Remember that you're allowed to be imperfect. You're not a machine.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18
