So, haven't been writing much but reading tons. Think I can just cut and paste Treasur's posts on mine. Hope that doesn't make me appear like a stalker!

Still haven't heard from H regarding mediation and will need to make decision this week of filing the nuclear option of going through the courts. My instincts are usually pretty good and do think Olga the Ukrainian is going to get pregnant. H off on a jaunt to see her. Plus think she will be a very expensive distraction.

When did he turn so seedy and disgusting and sexually obsessed? Does this have to do with his childhood sexual abuse? The new H is just so "ICK" and immature? Really feel like his latest action of being on vacation with OW2 and Meeting OW3 on the ship I still can't get my head around. In the long run, have not given up on OW2 coming back in the picture if things explode with Olga.

My H has always been to trusting and naive and now he has hormones fueling him. Oye vey! Got to get off the crazy train.

Radio silence from him. To be expected. He has clearly moved on to a "better life."


Me-54 H-49
T-1. M-7
BD 6/13 ILYBN I threw him out
OW - 3/13
OW2 on and off Overlap w/Ow1and OW3
OW3 - 8/17
H filed 1/17