There will come a time with no more tears

[Treasur]

Thanks, Gordie - did get back to sleep eventually. Annoyed with myself though because I'd just been getting the detachment thing down pat! Hey ho.

You're right. Sadly (but realistically) my expectations are to be divorced and never see or hear from him again. Which is rough after 20 years. But H is obviously entirely happy without my face in his life. Shame - it's a very nice face!