Thanks for the reminder Joe. You take in so much info it can be hard to remember. I like always happy!

I was starting to think the wife may never move this forward, but she has mentioned twice getting financial info together in the last few days. However, this is a far cry from actually sitting down with me to discuss. She has big plans until the work needed to do them comes around.

I talked to the MIL today (she needed advice). It was funny because she kept mentioning how she was always treated so poorly by my wife. Essentially turning it back to poor her. "See what I've dealt with all these years?"

1. Uh, we're talking about my divorce here.

2. It is true that my W has treated her mother like crap; but I think the two divorces, piss poor parenting, and the NPD had something to do with it!

I actually get along with the MIL just fine.


M: 41 W: 41
Married 2003
2 boys 9 & 6
Bomb Dropped May 2017