25yearsmlc All the pursuing was my own doing. I know what you are saying about texting to avoid rejection. If you knew me better you would know that I do not avoid rejection. The dynamic is some R are different than others and when I did so I felt it was the "best practice". It allows her to think before responding and not experience the pressure of a face to face rejection, in the even that she didn't want to.
I support most everything that Sandis says. Sometimes I don't think I communicate the sitch in a way that she understands either the turn of events or the nuances of a conversation. My fault. It seems so clear when I write it but is sometimes misunderstood.
As for the "man only a fool would leave." I don't understand. We all often don't see the forest for the trees. At least not before it's too late,
Perhaps I need to have this man described to me?
I do struggle separating this from "the H only a fool would leave"
Personally, I am prepared for whatever may come. I would like to fix this R, but if there turns out to be OM or she is just unwilling. I will survive. I always do.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
