just wanted to pipe in that I did Not mean for you to pursue your w for intimacy at all.
My comment about texting her for intimacy - was not to suggest asking her in person or over the phone at this time; it was not to pursue it at all for now
IMO< generally, unless there is mutual flirting (happening in a healthy r) texting about it to me
comes from a position wherein the asker won't take the risk of rejection in person, which is not a position of confidence.
Sorry if that wasn't clear.
I support pretty much everything Sandi is saying.
The only caveat is that "dumping" your wife is not to be done rudely or in a curt manner. Nothing like that.
It's about you knowing You are going to be fine because you have become a man only a fool would leave.
Make sense?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
