99.999% Over her right now, I could see where playing the jealousy card could do that but it's not my intention one bit. I didn't go looking for this, it has just kind of happened. My WW had talked to this other mom on the team and because my WW feels compelled to tell everyone she comes in contact with her that she is getting divorced because we drifted apart and I'm a bad husband I felt compelled to set the record straight. I am tired of getting blamed for our situation. So this mom and I started talking two weeks ago and I really enjoy her conversation and friendship. Not sure how this will play out but I need to keep it clean until it's my M is over. I need to make sure I remain the faithful one in this mess.
If you enjoy her company then spend time with her. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You're retaking control over your life and your situation. If you like talking with this woman and she enjoys spending time with you then so be it. You don't answer to anyone but yourself.