A familiar story with questions. II

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You threatened her, of course she was shaken. You go all week without speaking, and then you text her about having sex. Not sure how you see that as going dark......or dumping her. confused

Well, it didn't happen just like that. The ice was broken over the dog mess. We ate and spent Saturday shopping. Then I texted about sex.
As for the threat or dump or BD or whatever label seems appropriate, shaken is not her typical response. Angry or shut down is her MO. NC is not my typical reaction either.

I don't see anything from her that indicates she is wanting back in the M. You are making statements to her that you should not be saying.

She is a sweet new wife now. Ever since Friday and her talk on Sat. about how she had been going through a lot etc., she acts as if nothing ever happened.

I don't want her to glaze over this past month's developments and write it off like it was no big deal. This is what she appears to have planned.

I think you are reading too much into last weekend. I suggest that you don't say anymore right now. Before you start laying down terms..........you have to recognize what truly is a new beginning.

Except for reading too much into last weekend, I agree. I know when my W is changing even if I don't communicate it well, here. She felt a potential loss. Was it enough? IDK
All I know is I'm not ready to glaze over this month's events.