I wish I could reverse the home situation but can't GB basically favours the mother/wife irrelevant of the circumstance's.
I tried to "outstay" her but the atmosphere was damaging to the boys so had to move out had no choice! I understand your thoughts on the safety net but just cant get my head around her wanting to come back to the M if I don't show her a better option but again what I'm doing is primary for me then her.
We cant control anything these people do so the AP/LO in my house again is something I couldn't stop from happening, I'm open to options from anyone..?
Always said that basically my hands are tied and just have to work on me and have faith that one of them comes to their senses.
Thanks again all.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".