I agree with Maika 100%. You cannot be a safe place for your W. And uf you ask anyone on this board. The OM doesn't even compare to them before they made changes. Let alone the people they become after the change. That was the hardest thing for me to comprehend and understand. Why am I competing with someone who who on paper I am superior to? So get that thought process out your mind real quick.
Not sure how you allowed your W to get the house. And allow OM to move in. But you need to change that real quick if possible. Your making things way too easy. W needs to experience loss and consequence. OM is living it up at your expense.
