There will come a time with no more tears

[Citygrl]

I know I sound like a broken record but I know how you feel! Was having the same conversation with myself before I had the Mediation meeting and really considered postponing it. I came to the conclusion that I wanted to postpone because I didn't know what would transpire from it. I kept the appointment because I knew it would alleviate the anxiety I was feeling about it and I would have to do it eventually anyway. Unlike my husband who runs away, I confront those kind of things. It actually made me feel more empowered and no big decisions had to be made that day and may have sent message to husband that I am not waiting around anymore.

Not sure how your email will read to him. I do sense the anger in it and you have every right to express and feel that but he may just tune out because that's how they are. It's like talking in a wind tunnel. I also feel the frustration of never being able to have an adult conversation with a sane person when talking to the WAH. Any confrontation makes them run but no confrontation illicits nothing.

Glad you saw the eclipse it was rainy and cloudy here. Up for London but would have to be either Friday or Sunday as I am going away next week and not back until early Sept. Not a lot of notice and if SJW is onboard I know with kids those are not the best dates but if you are feeling impulsive, let's do it.