There will come a time with no more tears

[Treasur]

Decided to do what I need. Sent following email to STBXH.

From my point of view, you decided a long time ago that I had no right to a voice. About our marriage or how your choices were significantly going to effect my life. Don’t know why you did and I don’t agree with it. I think it was unkind and unrealistic.

I don’t see that your attitude to that has changed. Which is fine. But I still don’t agree.

I’m fine to talk about the financial stuff. It needs doing. I just don’t feel like doing it this week. I was going to make up an excuse but I’d rather just be honest.

I’ll be free to have that conversation next week. Weds 30th about 6pm would work for me.

Guess I've reached the point of no longer caring much. I've spent a year trying to deal with the practical stuff while he just sat in his MLC cave. Now he wants to 'move on', and has 'shifted' in this last few weeks, different perspective. And I just don't feel like talking to him this week. It's that simple. So he can wait a bit. Don't care if he applies for the Absolute because I have accepted that D is inevitable anyway. Don't care if he gets p'd off and wants to backtrack on the financial stuff - I'll just fall back on the court option. Don't care how he feels or what he thinks. Just don't care. Quite a nice feeling....like BadA** Acceptance.

Instead this week is about me and doing some happy things.