WW and barely talked over the last 4 days and I didn't miss it one bit. I kept busy doing stuff I wanted to do, the kids knew what I was up to, just didn't tell her. S17 and I went to dinner Friday as WW had D11 and S13 was with friends, S17 opened up a bit and told me how angry he is towards his mom for doing this to me and the family, said he doesn't want to stay with her and he told me that he has the other two on his side. I told him he is old enough to make up his own mind but he shouldn't shut his mom out. If they find out what she has done and is doing it could get ugly for her. Sunday she left for church but didn't tell me or the kids, I took S13 and D somewhere for a couple hours, got an angry text from WW wanting to know where we are. She says I didn't leave a note as to my whereabouts, it's funny how the rules are one sided. On another note, not sure if this is right or wrong but a divorcing mom from one our my kids sports teams and I have been trading messages that get flirty from time to time and easily could go further. My question, is this OK to do?? We actually have fun bantering back and forth but we both agree to that our kids are #1. I really miss the interaction with a female human being and feel this is harmless fun that out of respect for my former wife I would have never engage in, what says the experts here???


Me 47 WW 44
T25 yrs M20
S18 S14 D12
Divorced 3/12/2018