Hi

Just my 2 cents-

I think many of us might feel insecure about R after the whole MLC trauma

WE can learn from the past and many of us will find and sometimes better R and M if we choose

I would work on self esteem-build it with more power filled self messages-
you can learn this in therapy

If you want another R-seek it after you have recovered more self esteem -so you can attract a worthy partner

also once you create Physical distance from Wife--with your move --I believe it will be easier to let her more fully go and hopefully after you won't care what she does or who she meets

Good luck


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow