I think many of us might feel insecure about R after the whole MLC trauma
WE can learn from the past and many of us will find and sometimes better R and M if we choose
I would work on self esteem-build it with more power filled self messages- you can learn this in therapy
If you want another R-seek it after you have recovered more self esteem -so you can attract a worthy partner
also once you create Physical distance from Wife--with your move --I believe it will be easier to let her more fully go and hopefully after you won't care what she does or who she meets
Good luck
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow