1. I think I'm doing a decent job at detachment, but it kind of makes me low emotion. The book says stay upbeat. So I need to be detached and upbeat, correct? Am I missing something?

Kylo, I just try to act the same as I always would without bringing up our R or D. I think TX or maybe AS posted something like this when it comes to detachment.

W mad = Kylo happy
W sad = Kylo happy
W happy = Kylo happy

So you are always happy and her mood has no impact on you!


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018