I have a lady friend i feel i could share anything with im not physically attracked
Yea, that is pretty close to the definition of a EA.
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Why if i can find a way to connect with a female friend is it so hard to find a common ground with the w.
This is where some counseling or therapy would be beneficial. Also, while I have not read it, many here swear by the Five love language book.
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Because i have so much contact with my w do you think asking a question like "do you enjoy these small interactions with me and the familly and if so would you like to add anything to them?" Be a smart thing to do
I wouldn't, it sounds like pursuit.
However, just for fun: play it out in your head (in one of your next posts take a guess what her answers could be, and the ramifications of each answer. (this is just for fun, don't develop this all time... as its actually trying for some mind reading)
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Woundedfool do you have a active thread at this time
Not really, if you caught the renewed interest I posted a little while back... that is about it.
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i have read up on your history with the renewed contact of your w imvery intsrested in how this may affect some of your choices going forward
I don't think it has had any effect. I don't want to seem indifferent to it, but I am still in the mode of believing 1/2 of what I see, and none of what I hear from/about her.
Turns out I have become very happy with who I am, and where I am headed. And I credit much of that to learning about DB.
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thanks again for your comments and suggestions.
No problem! The trade off is I come cheap.
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13
