I am very happy to read that your surgery went well, you are home and yes...have a lot of support. Don't be afraid to ask for assistance. Your family and friends are there and want to help you any way that they can.
As for your xh offering to help...definitely take him up on his offer.
Take it easy and just enjoy the TLC you are getting from others right now. Don't over do it just because the pain meds are helping...do exactly what the doctor has told you and, in no time, you will be recovered and on your way again!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
