I kind of posted something along these lines in my thread, not completely relatable, but kinda'. Just something to chew on as it's been on my mind as well.
I have no answers for you. Just be true to yourself. What is the goal in going to counseling? I only ask because my ex wanted counseling as a means to not be an active participant in solving our problems. He expected a therapist to do the work...... And when progress didn't happen, he raised his hands in the air saying "even therapy didn't work" thus taking zero responsibility for the breakdown in the m.
I hope you and your ww are in the position where you both want to work on this together, but you're both stuck for x,y,z reasons so you are going to counseling to get some help on how to work through these issues together. Make sure you have a goal in mind!
I have a feeling that all will work out as it should for you, Pinn. You've been such a peaceful DB warrior throughout your journey. You got this! Whatever this is.
Hope you enjoy the rest of your weekend.
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16
