Hi G , just to say Sandi is on the mark. Your insecure and i get that. I know how it feels to be insecure and you need to work through those issues with an IC. As for letting go ,, you might need space from W. The living together is very tough for a very secure person but for an insecure one , its torture.
Hows your GAL ??? Hows the children doing ????
G, read Sandis quote under her name, your at this for sometime now and nothings changing , you need to do something differently to deal with this.
